About Us
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Your life begins in the moment you are conceived. First in the womb, later outside of it. This process is largely unconscious. As you get older, you become increasingly aware of who you are, what you are capable of, and what you want. Your personality takes shape depending on your upbringing and what you have experienced. Your development continues throughout your life, even if you are not consciously aware of it. If everything is going well, there is little reason to reflect on yourself, but sooner or later, everyone experiences moments in life when things go wrong, when you don't feel comfortable in your own skin, or when you do not feel happy. This can be accompanied by physical and/or psychological/emotional complaints. The two are not separate; body and mind are closely connected.
Our Story
Our Ego gives substance to various psychological roles, such as: rescuer, people-pleaser, perpetrator, spectator, and victim. All are ways to seek attention. But there are also societal roles, such as the black sheep or the welfare recipient. And then we have the functional and biological roles such as: partner, educator, colleague, supervisor, employee, supervisor, caregiver, teacher, student, etc. We constantly switch roles, often easily and without realizing it. Tensions can develop between functional and biological roles. This is because the role of the parents, a biological role, is mirrored in a functional role. For instance, we can begin to mirror our feelings of rejection, caused by our parents, onto the functional role of a manager. The feeling of rejection—of not being 'seen' at work—then originates in not being 'seen' by a parent during childhood. This can go well for a long time until something changes, either in your environment or within yourself. Suddenly, things are no longer so easy; you no longer feel comfortable, you feel insecure, you develop (vague) complaints, you are tired and/or become easily irritated. But you persevere, because after all, you don't want to whine; it will probably pass. Until you catch yourself realizing that it isn't passing; the unpleasant feeling keeps coming back. That is the moment to take a step back and pay more attention to yourself. To take the signals seriously before things get worse!
You might talk about it with your partner, a friend, or someone else, but ultimately, you don't get any further. You remain in the same circle or the same pattern. How do I get rid of it? How do I get back to myself? How do I move forward? Then it is time to allow yourself to make an appointment with an objective therapist, someone who can guide you in a pleasant and professional manner. I want to be that person for you. We will look at your needs and together we will get to work on whatever presents itself; you will get back to yourself and set out on the path to what you want to achieve. You don't have to do it alone!
A good therapist has life experience and has worked through important themes themselves, enabling them to understand and help other people well. Trust and safety are prerequisites for a good session. We can discuss this in detail, but either the right feeling is there or it isn't. After the intake interview, we both know whether this mutual trust, respect, and safety exist.
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